In response to your last anon. I'm a Christian. I was just 11 when my aunt got married, and decided then that I wanted to get married in a little church. Since then, a lot of things have changed, but I would still like to live out that dream. When I was that young, I had no idea about sexuality, and still thought the church prioritised love over hate (those I've met personally have, but...) why should someone be denied a dream because of something beyond their control?